A House of Order

a woman sitting in front of cardboard boxes
This week we have some friends coming to stay with us. The kids are so excited. I took the opportunity to use their excited energy to reorganize some areas of the house.

We went through a lot of our things and purged what we no longer need. The things that we don’t really use anymore, the things the kids have grown out of. The things that just take up space in our lives that are unnecessary.

I love to do this. As a kid, we moved every three to four years, and it was a great opportunity to clean out what wasn’t serving me anymore and start fresh. Since being married, we have stayed in the same area for a couple of decades. I came to realize that the cleaning, tidying, and purging of things became a necessary part of my personal growth.

I remember when we were first married, I had been commuting for my job and my husband worked the later shift and we didn’t see much of each other. I remember coming home one night and seeing what a mess our apartment was.

I was so overwhelmed with my commute, my job, missing my family, and the mess that I broke down sobbing. I remember my husband picked me up, carried me to the bed and held me while I cried. Then he kissed my forehead, left the room, and shut the door. Soon after, I could hear him washing the dishes and vacuuming.

He was able to understand what I needed before I really understood it. I cannot function in chaos. I need a tidy house and then I can focus on the important things. Like this blog post today, I kept getting distracted with tidying things and laundry and then I realized how much of the day was getting away from me.

Before summer started, I was blogging almost daily with missing a few days here and there. Now that the kids don’t have a regimented schedule, I am struggling to find my rhythm. This blog is important. If for no one else, it is important for me. I hope it helps someone else though.

The last few days the phrase ‘A House of Order’ has been interrupting my thoughts. “Behold, mine house is a house of order, saith the Lord God, and not a house of confusion.” Doctrine and Covenants 132:8

“Organize yourself; prepare every needful thing; and establish a house, even a house of prayer, a house of fasting, a house of faith, a house of learning, a house of glory, a house of order, a house of God.” Doctrine and Covenants 88:119

This is my desire. I desire it for myself. I desire it for my husband. I desire it for my children. I desire it for anyone that comes into my home. It is not only a desire though. I have worked hard to make it a reality.

I am organized. I like to be prepared and plan for all of the possible needs. I am establishing a house or prayer, fasting, faith, learning and order. I truly believe that when I and my family make great effort to hold to those efforts, God will share His glory in my home.

I encourage you to establish your own house of order. Start small. Don’t get overwhelmed. Don’t give up. You will get there. I can’t wait for you to feel this blessing in your life.


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I’m Kista, the creator and author behind this blog. I’m a woman who has experience with infertility, IVF, foster care, adoption, mental health struggles for myself and those that I love. I have special needs children that I homeschool and lots more adventures to be sure! I am a member of The Church of Jesus Christ of Latter-Day Saints. Through all of these ventures I have become closer to a loving Heavenly Father and Jesus Christ. I have seen miracles and witnessed angels on earth tend to me and those that I love. I want to share my thoughts and experiences with you.

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